There is no simple way to find the right gifts for her. Even if you know her extremely well, there is always something new and unique she probably wants that she hasn't told you.
Finding gifts for her that make her smile and feel romantic are not easy to find no matter who you are. That's why it is important to take a moment and consider all the gifts she wants or has wanted before.
What were those things and how did she come to want these gifts? Is there something new she is doing in her life now, or is there a special piece of jewelry that will sum up everything you feel about her.
Finding the right gifts for her is more art than science, that is for sure. Her tastes won't be the same from month to month, let alone year to year. One birthday she may want a massage coupon, while another birthday or holiday, a Friendship bracelet is a better option.
Choosing these gift ideas for her will take some practice and patience. Listen for hints, or subtle clues. Usually, she will at least try to lead you in the right direction.
If you can't figure out what it is she wants, try these gifts for her and see if anything makes a connection.